Should I Stay or Should I Go? | Situationships | Drowning in Motherhood | The Hidden Pages Podcast
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SHOWNOTES
Episode 002: Confession Sesh - Should I Stay or Should I Go? | Situationships | Drowning in Motherhood | The Hidden Pages Podcast
In this revealing episode of The Hidden Pages Podcast, I dive into anonymous confessions from listeners dealing with relationships, motherhood, and self-discovery. Some of you shared personal dilemmas, asking for advice on situations that challenge your sense of self and happiness. I address each confession with compassion and real talk, offering insights on relationship red flags, finding clarity, and navigating tough decisions.
Tune in to hear my thoughts on whether an attraction outside a relationship signals the end, why stepping out of comfort zones can transform our connections, and how the journey of motherhood can feel both isolating and rewarding. With practical tips for setting boundaries, finding community, and prioritizing self-care, this episode offers relatable advice for anyone managing complex relationship dynamics or struggling with the challenges of motherhood.
Key Topics:
Recognizing red flags in relationships and deciding when it’s time to let go
Balancing self-care with the demands of motherhood
Setting boundaries and making new connections as an adult
Understanding and breaking the cycle of situationships for greater self-worth
This episode is all about helping you find clarity, feel validated, and navigate these complicated areas of life. Join me for some heartfelt advice and tips to support you in these journeys.
Show Notes
Introduction:
I introduce the “Confession Sesh,” where listeners anonymously share personal struggles around relationships, motherhood, and self-worth. While I’m not a therapist, I offer honest advice based on my own experiences, and I encourage you to seek professional help if needed.
Key Segments:
Addie’s Relationship Dilemma (0:01:18 - 0:06:54)
I address Addie’s question about feeling an attraction outside her relationship and whether it means the end. We talk about identifying if it’s just comfort or a deeper issue, and I suggest open communication with her partner and giving herself time to reflect.Sophia’s Motherhood Struggles (0:06:54 - 0:13:06)
Sophia shares her challenges with isolation and unmet expectations in motherhood. I offer advice on finding community, making mom friends, and dealing with the guilt of setting boundaries with unsupportive family members.Emily’s Situationship Cycle (0:13:06 - 0:16:17)
Emily, who finds herself stuck in a cycle of “almost relationships,” asks if she’s sabotaging herself. I talk about setting firm boundaries, identifying patterns from childhood, and working on self-worth to attract more fulfilling connections.
One-Week Challenge: “One New Boundary” (0:16:17)
This week, I challenge you to set one boundary, no matter how small. It could be a limit with family, friends, or work. The goal is to practice saying “no” when necessary and make space for self-care and authenticity in your relationships.
Conclusion:
I wrap up with a reminder to prioritize your well-being and honor your needs in relationships and motherhood. "You don’t have to carry it all alone. Remember, setting boundaries is an act of love for yourself."
Keywords:
relationships, motherhood, setting boundaries, situationships, self-care, personal growth, navigating motherhood, relationship red flags, self-worth